• Strategy

  • Planning

  • Prioritizing

  • Getting Started

  • Taking focused actions

  • Following Through

  • Meeting Deadlines

Executive ADHD Coaching

 
You’re successful, charismatic, and confident.  You’re a natural leader.  You are admired for your creative solutions, and at times, singular passion for getting the job done.  And yet, you’re often frustrated with yourself.

In spite of your best intentions, you remain distracted, disorganized, and repeatedly procrastinate tackling certain tasks, even though you genuinely care and are aware of the consequences of putting them off. You feel you are your own worst enemy.  Your boss, spouse, and colleagues can find some of your behavior irresponsible or uncaring when you drop the ball, don’t follow through or miss deadlines time and time again.

Talent, motivation and hard work are not the problemIt’s the details, the mundane and the boring that are a constant struggle.

It’s time to get out of your own way.

James Murphy’s hands-on approach to ADHD Coaching merges continuous contact with proven tools that help executives harness the unique strengths that come along ADHD, while mitigating the challenges that clients with ADHD often experience.

With over 14 years of full time Executive Coaching experience, James will help you develop and implement strategies to manage your time, get organized, keep you on task, and meet your deadlines.

To schedule a complimentary Focus Session to discuss your goals, call 919-792-0085 today. 

 

Coaching the Executive with ADHD centers around 

Strategy * Support * Accountability

 

Basic ADD / ADHD Survival Skills

Mastery of any skill usually comes down to 3-5 simple tasks performed over and over again.  For the ADD/ADHD executive, or anyone with ADHD, it can be a struggle at times to be consistent with certain tasks.  But over time, those small tweaks can add up to make a big difference.  Here are some simple fundamental ADD ADHD survival skills.  Pick the ones that may be right for you to start implementing.

1. Sleep

    • Realize you are tempted to stay up late into the night so don’t schedule early morning classes or appts if at all possible
    • Take melatonin when your sleep patterns are way off in order to activate the sleep cycles…this could also be a good tool when face with compter blue light into the evening
    • For help eliminating computer blue light, check out http://justgetflux.com
    • Fall asleep with a fan, white noise, ocean sounds, delta sleep rhythms or anything relaxing

2. Eating/diet

    • Ask your doctor about supplemental Omega-3’s oils, vitamin D & B vitamins
    • Cut down on stimulants such as caffeine and sugars
    • Keep bars and healthy snacks stashed at work, in the car, backpack, etc. for whenever you forget to eat

3. Exercise

    • One good solid hour of cardio per day is good for 3-4 hours of quality focused work time
    • If you can’t do an hour, do anything to get 15-20 minutes of cardio per day
    • When all else fails, do as much as you can, even if that means parking far from your building, going up the stairs instead of taking the elevator or going for a walk at lunch.

4. Work (or Study)

    • Seclusion is key, close your office door, find quiet spaces away from any distraction, or use noise canceling headphones to tune out everyone around you.
    • Close all electronic distractions. Turn down the sound on your cell, close Facebook and all those extra windows on your computer.
    • If you find that you need music to concentrate, tune in to music with no words or something you know so well that you can easily tune it out
    • During meetings, make sure you write down some notes (even though you probably won’t want to).   It will help you stay engaged and focused.
    • Make your list of things to do (preferably the night before, but at the very least when you get to the office) and take it one item at a time.

–>  Resist the temptation to tackle 5 projects at once.  In the flurry of activity, you might feel that you are accomplishing lots of things, only to realize at the end of the day that you spent most of your time addressing forest fires and you have not produced anything of substance.

 

You will probably be challenged and want to try all the ADHD survival skills on the list, but instead, take one from each of the four areas and see what you can work into your schedule as regularly as possible.  ADHD strategies only work if you actually use them.  Adopting new strategies in small batches has a much higher rate of success than trying everything at once only to abandon them after a few days.

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